WHY DO I LOSE MY ERECTION WHEN MY PARTNER IS ON TOP?

Written By Dr. Susie Gronski, PT, DPT, PRPC, CSC, CSE

Losing an erection while lying on your back is not just a blood flow issue.

It’s common to sometimes lose an erection when your partner is on top (like in cowgirl or man missionary). When your erection softens in these positions, it’s only because you’re experiencing different sexual stimuli that may not be your strongest turn-on.

You can get curious and discover things you can do to enjoy pleasure in these sex positions.

What you can try when your partner is on top:

  • Connect to what turns you on visually with mirrors or by changing up the position and asking your partner to straddle you backward.

  • Mix in 69 before your partner gets on top of you. It’s the same position just different sexual stimulus!

  • Enhance stimulation with Kegels for men by pumping your penis up and down.

This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

Dr. Susie Gronski, PT, DPT, PRPC, CSC, CSE

With over a decade of expertise in men's pelvic and sexual health, Dr. Susie Gronski is a Licensed Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified Pelvic Rehabilitation Practitioner, AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor and Educator, and owner of a multidisciplinary men’s pelvic health clinic in Asheville, NC

https://www.drsusieg.com
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